Hi Everyone! Sorry it has been awhile since I've posted. It's taken quite some time to think about what to talk about. Believe it or not, but I've been at a loss for words! Josh said it best, talk about what's on your mind. So here it goes...
Many of you know or have heard, that my maternal grandmother passed away earlier this month. She was my rock, my confidante, my mentor and someone I wanted to be when I grew up. From the day I was born, she cared for me, taught me how to use chopsticks, tell time, learn multiplication tables and how to write in cursive. Most of all she nurtured and loved me and always guided me through the best and worst of times. I always wanted her to be proud that I was her granddaughter and this month I learned that she really was. That makes me smile and today I celebrate her.
In March, I was so fortunate to take some time and spend quality time with her. We reminisced, told our favorite stories and enjoyed each other's company like we always did. I was able to care for her like she always did for me. I never thought that doing laundry, dishes and cooking could be so gratifying. It was a small token, but it was nice to finally feel like I could could in some small way, take care of her and thank her for everything. Today, I cherish that very special visit.
Josh had the priviledge to meet her last June. She was the most important person that he had to meet since I knew he was the man I wanted to marry and build a life together. She of course approved. She thought he was nice and handsome man and even though he had a big nose, she liked it. =) She said that she knew I was happy by just looking at me and that was all she could ask for. That visit with her was one of the most important ones and I will forever remember the first and last time she met my husband-to-be.
She was so happy to know that I had found happiness with Josh and that we were getting married this year. At a first glance, she was able to pick out the color, clarity and weight of my engagement ring down to the decimal. Who knew she had such a talent! She appreciated his thoughtfulness and attention to detail he put into it to make her granddaughter feel as special as she felt I deserved. She gave me something very special that I will get to wear on my wedding day and I can't wait for her to smile down on us as we say "I Do" on the beautiful beaches of Cook Islands.
This post is to Celebrate, Cherish and Remember my Grandma. Thanks for sharing this with me.
Christina, I remember going into my last visit with my Grandma knowing it would be the last, it was difficult but comforting to have had the chance to spend those cherished moments hearing her share amazing stories and talk about the experiences throughout her lifetime. I'm glad you had the chance to do the same! And let me just say what a hip chick you Grandma was back in those 70s! Love the pants and I totally remember the sweater you have on! -Love ya! Gina
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